Dear  People  sitting across the  table,
             You  guys are   gathered around a table for  a  school meeting of a student that  struggles.    Maybe  they   have  a intellectual  disability or a  behavior issue but  you are about to meet with that student and  their families to  talk about   the upcoming school  year.  I am that bad  student.   I  was the one  no one  wanted  to teach.  I was "the hardest student  I had ever had to  teach".    I  am now that adult  who  is  hardest   to teach.   I have  been those meetings and boy they are not  fun.
         Can I ask  you  guys around the  table  for a favor.  Can you  please   remember that every  person has  both a good and bad side to them.  Can  you  please   remember that    students like  me are not future  inmates  or  horrible   people  headed  nowhere.     We are more then  IQ scores or  how inteligble   our speech  is. 
   Can  I  remind you that their  is no  alternative   to inclusive  education.     It is the  law  for a reason      No  research  has found that segregation  what  you  guys   call " a program" or " special  day  class"  is a better option  even  for  those with serve  disabilities.   LRE  says  that  students like me  should be  educated  for the most amount of time  among  peers  who do not have disabilities  using the rights supports and services and  if  all the supports  fail  first then is it ok  to   remove to a  more restrictive environment    That is the law.  No one should have to prove that they are worthy  of an education and everyone  learns at a different  pace.
    Dear  people  at the other  end at a  table  in an  IEP  meeting.   Before you  start ,  please  look into the  parents and  child  eyes.   Everyone has a story.   The parents   probably  have experienced  a lot of heartache  over  their  disabled child.     Most people  do not  want a  disabled family  member and   it is quite  possible  that  there was a  time when the child was  small  that they cried  for their  child's future.   You  may  be able  to go  home  and  back  to your  lives , but  the child's  parents  have to   see the child that  night.   Please make it easy for them to  see their child  that night.  If all you do  is   remind  said  parents that there  child is  rude and disruptive.  They  will have to go home and become  the cop to the child.  This  will  undoubtly   make the  student self esteem  suffer immensely which  will  lead to  more  bad behavior and  their  believing that  they are  bad people.  
Instead  of  calling it bad behavior  why  not  say"  Jimmy  is  confused  by the social  new-ounces  of  classroom  life.   Can  we  all  work together to  try to  teach  him  social  skills  so  he  can    get along in life."    It is a lack of  skill  not bad behavior.    Students are not bad if they  do not  understand  an Algebra  concept, nor  should  they  be  called  bad if they  do not understand   how  to  behave in class.        
   One last thing.   No  one has a crystal  ball so  try  not to  predict the  future  thanks.
  Sincerely 
  A  young person that  lacks  social  skills, and 
  has  a  strong love of  learning.
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Monday, April 21, 2014
Tuesday, April 15, 2014
How I celebrated CP day
  Hay  guys  so sorry  long time  no  blog.  I have  been discouraged about the lack of comments  but now  i am  back.  I wanted to share with you what I did  for national CP  day. 
My sister made cookies that I took to my program. ( I am not in school this semester but I may be in school in the Fall we have to see). The program
am was tempory and now i am done with the program.
I went to program in my green clothes and hat. It was cold that day so I wore a long white t shirt under my HOPE t shirt. After program I went to pizza and then took the bus home. I had a fun day.
A fellow Ceep, person with CP made this video. It was so nice to see many people wearing green to support us.
My sister made cookies that I took to my program. ( I am not in school this semester but I may be in school in the Fall we have to see). The program
am was tempory and now i am done with the program.
I went to program in my green clothes and hat. It was cold that day so I wore a long white t shirt under my HOPE t shirt. After program I went to pizza and then took the bus home. I had a fun day.
A fellow Ceep, person with CP made this video. It was so nice to see many people wearing green to support us.
Tuesday, April 8, 2014
The Solution is Inculsion
                One of my earliest memories come from when I was in  preschool.   I have a few memories, but the one that stands out  is  when on a playground on a  elementary school  campus. The  teacher yelled , " The  big kids are coming."  Now  she could have yelled  that the big kids are coming for two reasons  One  that   we were preschoolers and  when you are that little a  seven  year old is a "big kid" compared to you.   Or   it could have  been that  all the kids  on the playground, including myself,  were disabled.    I  attend a county  preschool  special needs class.  That ment that most days I rode a small  yellow bus to and from school  I  was met by others that had special needs.  Some  were hearing impaired  others were in wheelchairs, I was in a speech impaired class as talking was, and continues to be,  a huge moments  task for me.If I spoke clearly, I would try to do a Ted talk on inclusion. Since I don't talk clearly, a blog post I will write. I am able to write it because I was included and learned how to write essays.
Special education classes are the biggest diservice to students with disabilities today. That is a pretty bold statement . But so all these.
34% of people with intellectual disabilities are employed
In 2012, 12% of people with any disability had a BA or higher.
How are thses outcomes OK for students. How can we commit one more youngster to these same "programs" that produce these result. Obviously we have failed people with disabilities but is inclusion the answer. I argue that it is because I was included in school.
I was included right from birth. My parents did not spend an hour a day with me then leave to take care of my seven year old brother. Could you imagine if a parent did that. That would be child abuse. If that is child abuse, Why is it OK for elementary school kids to only be include for specials( art music PE science and history) ? The science and history disappears as an option once students enter middle school. This is not okey. This is denying children access to stories and math games and other things that kids are doing. I was in general education classes and we spent most of the day doing reading and math. If I were only mainstreamed for science and social studies, I would not have had writers workshop or reading Charlotte's Web, and tile math.
Speaking about other kids, Why is ok to deny children with disabilities access to neighborhood schools? For kids, schools are there first community outside their family, so when we bus kids to other places they do not get to meet the neighborhood kids. They do not get to walk to school. They do not see other kids that they know in there local supermarkets or REC Centers. Isolation is common amongst kids with disabilities. So knowing this , why do school people routinely bus kids to other schools in there district All kids that use public schools should go to the school in there neighborhood.
How do we teach kids how to be in the community when all they know is isolation. The answer is not to take secondary students out in the community during the school day. The kids need to be in there local high school classes learning about the world around them. Just like they would if they did not have a disabilities. If they need work experience why not try to find it within the high school community so they can feel connected to the school. Could they work in the cafeteria once a week? Could they mange the sports equipment physical education department? Could they be messengers that work in the front office? Could they be teacher assistants? Could they be on student council ? They can do all of these activities and more to get job skills within their high school experience with help. Without ever stepping off the campus they can work in there community. When you are 16 your community is the high school. I remember being afraid when I started pre -k in a inclusive setting. There were more kids and different expectations. I can not imagine if I had spent my entire school carrer in a special day program then transition into the community. I would have been lost. My transition into the community was made easier by me being in inclusive education because I grew up in my community. I learned about being in a community by being part of my school community.
Parents might tell me that there kid loves being in the special day classes. You know what ask any kid if they wanted to go to all day dance and most would like it. Ask any kid if they want to go ice skateing for the day and most would like it. How bout to see the latest film.? If that was there school day then of course then most kids would love school, but they are not ready for life. This is not education. Education is all about learning.
All the special needs classes that I was in did not have structure The teachers and students disrespected me. Most students with intellecual disabilities were segered, so when I showed up last year at university, people taught that I was not intelligent People were surprised when I did well on tests. I really do not blame these stereotypes I am willing to bet big bucks that these professors never had a chancee to know what disabilities were. Professors never knew that the disabled were capable of greatness. The sad part is a whole generation of kids in america are not having the opportunity to know different because of the system. The system needs to change. Kids need to be on the same level to begin to falsify these stereotypes They can not do if they are helpers. They can not do it if disabled kids are segregated. They can only do it when the disabled student is just another kid in their classes for the whole day.
For those of you that haven't heard my story watch this
What do you think? I want to hear from you. Please commet before you leave/
References
http://www.disabilitystatistics.org/reports/acs.cfm?statistic=2
http://www.prnewswire.com/news-releases/unemployment-of-people-with-intellectual-disabilities-more-than-twice-as-high-as-general-population-245835281.html
Special education classes are the biggest diservice to students with disabilities today. That is a pretty bold statement . But so all these.
34% of people with intellectual disabilities are employed
In 2012, 12% of people with any disability had a BA or higher.
How are thses outcomes OK for students. How can we commit one more youngster to these same "programs" that produce these result. Obviously we have failed people with disabilities but is inclusion the answer. I argue that it is because I was included in school.
I was included right from birth. My parents did not spend an hour a day with me then leave to take care of my seven year old brother. Could you imagine if a parent did that. That would be child abuse. If that is child abuse, Why is it OK for elementary school kids to only be include for specials( art music PE science and history) ? The science and history disappears as an option once students enter middle school. This is not okey. This is denying children access to stories and math games and other things that kids are doing. I was in general education classes and we spent most of the day doing reading and math. If I were only mainstreamed for science and social studies, I would not have had writers workshop or reading Charlotte's Web, and tile math.
Speaking about other kids, Why is ok to deny children with disabilities access to neighborhood schools? For kids, schools are there first community outside their family, so when we bus kids to other places they do not get to meet the neighborhood kids. They do not get to walk to school. They do not see other kids that they know in there local supermarkets or REC Centers. Isolation is common amongst kids with disabilities. So knowing this , why do school people routinely bus kids to other schools in there district All kids that use public schools should go to the school in there neighborhood.
How do we teach kids how to be in the community when all they know is isolation. The answer is not to take secondary students out in the community during the school day. The kids need to be in there local high school classes learning about the world around them. Just like they would if they did not have a disabilities. If they need work experience why not try to find it within the high school community so they can feel connected to the school. Could they work in the cafeteria once a week? Could they mange the sports equipment physical education department? Could they be messengers that work in the front office? Could they be teacher assistants? Could they be on student council ? They can do all of these activities and more to get job skills within their high school experience with help. Without ever stepping off the campus they can work in there community. When you are 16 your community is the high school. I remember being afraid when I started pre -k in a inclusive setting. There were more kids and different expectations. I can not imagine if I had spent my entire school carrer in a special day program then transition into the community. I would have been lost. My transition into the community was made easier by me being in inclusive education because I grew up in my community. I learned about being in a community by being part of my school community.
Parents might tell me that there kid loves being in the special day classes. You know what ask any kid if they wanted to go to all day dance and most would like it. Ask any kid if they want to go ice skateing for the day and most would like it. How bout to see the latest film.? If that was there school day then of course then most kids would love school, but they are not ready for life. This is not education. Education is all about learning.
All the special needs classes that I was in did not have structure The teachers and students disrespected me. Most students with intellecual disabilities were segered, so when I showed up last year at university, people taught that I was not intelligent People were surprised when I did well on tests. I really do not blame these stereotypes I am willing to bet big bucks that these professors never had a chancee to know what disabilities were. Professors never knew that the disabled were capable of greatness. The sad part is a whole generation of kids in america are not having the opportunity to know different because of the system. The system needs to change. Kids need to be on the same level to begin to falsify these stereotypes They can not do if they are helpers. They can not do it if disabled kids are segregated. They can only do it when the disabled student is just another kid in their classes for the whole day.
For those of you that haven't heard my story watch this
What do you think? I want to hear from you. Please commet before you leave/
References
http://www.disabilitystatistics.org/reports/acs.cfm?statistic=2
http://www.prnewswire.com/news-releases/unemployment-of-people-with-intellectual-disabilities-more-than-twice-as-high-as-general-population-245835281.html
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