My family and I have watched all six of the orginal Star Wars over the holidays. It is a great series and lends itself good way explaining part of what is going on.
If you wanted to know what being a Jedi is like who would you go to for an explaination?
a R2D2
B A wookie
C Luke Skywalker
D Hans Solo
If you were to ask me this at the begining of the month I would not know who to ask because I do not know the characters. If I told you that Luke is a Jedi The answer should be pretty clear that you were to ask Luke to explain the Jedi's role. This seems like common sense for any other able bodied question on the experts.
When the person has a disability they are thought to have no voice which gives rise to Parents being their child's voice. I am not saying that parents should not advocate for their kids. What I am saying is that they aren't the experts on disablities nor are the doctors and specialist or teacher experts, asuming that none of them had a disability, The real experts are the ones that live it 24 seven or people with disabilities. The only experts are the disabled.
Do Able bodied people play an important part in a person's life.? Yes They are the ones that use their skills abilities and privilege in helping their child navigate this society. But they do have privilage and sometime their use of privilage does more harm then good. For example when people poke fun of their disabled kid or dicuss personal issues online for anyone else to see then they violate others privacy in the name of advocacy. An example of this is anything relating to the bathroom should not be online for anyone to see. Itpersonal and not for the public. Another thing is Insperational Pron. I will write a post on it soon. This is why disabled people are mad.