I have been playing golf since 2007. I first learned about the sport through Special Olympics. My first year I started playing I was in skills and I could not hit the ball over 100 ft.
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First golf event with Special Olympics 2007 |
After two months I decided that I wanted to play for my high school team. My dad thought it was foolish but he drove me to the course anyway. The coach was a former special education teacher and felt that he could handle a teenager with disabilities and let me on the team. By saying yes to me he allowed me to become a part of the golf team he also laid the foundation for something magical to happen a Monday night in August.
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Good chip |
Now I am pretty good at golf, I can hit the ball over one hundred feet and hit really good chip shots . I now no longer play skills, I now play unified golf. Unified Golf is where a person with a disability plays alongside a person without disabilities and mentors them as they develop their skills to play individually. I really thought that my partner would be the same one as last year but she had work commitments. I asked a girl on my high school golf team if she would be willing to play with me. She couldn't , but she did come out to play with me one night.
That night I played the best game of my life. I got two great chips and great drives. I also was able to connect with a peer who is quickly becoming my friend. We were not close friends in high school , but we were able to reconnect, She originally lived on my street but moved to another city. Being on that team laid the foundation for us to play together .
I know a lot of families of kids with disabilities who have to fight for inclusive education. My heart breaks for these families and their kids. I also feel very angry because educators need to understand that school is more than test scores and academic honors. It is the center of a child's life. Friends come from school experience when people ship students off to another place there is no foundation for friendships to form between those with and without disabilities. I am not saying that these friendships will form while in school, but they could, but as people grow and mature and see their surroundings in a new way they might want to become friends with people with disabilities, but if they did not have the chance to attend school with people who did have disabilities they will not know where to look.
Inclusion lays the foundation for friendships.
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